Oak Park Area Lesbian and Gay Association
Since its inception in 1989, OPALGA has become one of the largest community based, multipurpose lesbian and gay membership organizations in Illinois.
Book Club
The book club continues to meet each month at The OPALGA Center. In August we hope to have a special treat! Author Carol Anshaw has graciously agreed to come to Oak Park to lead the discussion of her novel Aquamarine. One of our book club members - Joyce, came up with the idea and called Carol to ask if she’d come lead our discussion. Thank you Joyce!
Selections through September 2007 are as follows:
April
The House on Mango Street by Sandra Cisneros
The coming of age story of Esperanza Cordero in the Hispanic quarters of Chicago.
May
Patience and Sarah by Isabelle Miller
In the early nineteenth century, in a puritanical New England town, two women fall in love.
June
Wilderness Trek by Dorothy Tell
(2nd Sunday) Kay and her life partner lead six very dissimilar women on a two-week trek into the Oszrk mountains. A sensual, suspenseful, highly entertaining story.
July
Fun Home by Alison Bechdel
Documents Bechdel’s childhood experiences and coming-of-age as a lesbian, and her heartbreaking relationship with her distant father, a closeted gay who ran a funeral parlor.
August
Aquamarine by Carol Anshaw
Olympic swimmer Jesse Austin is seduced and consequently edged out for a gold medal by her Australian rival.
September
The Time Traveler’s Wife by Audrey Niffenegger
A love story told alternately from the viewpoints of time traveler Henry and his wife, Clare.
The book club meetings take place on Sundays from 2:00 to 4:00 P.M. and are held at The OPALGA Center, 947 Garfield, Oak Park. All books are available through amazon.com. In addition, copies will be made available at the Oak Park Public Library as well as at The Book Table. Remember there is a contribution to OPALGA for every novel bought at the Book Table. Just let them know you are with the OPALGA book-club meeting.
Contemplating Parenthood Workshop
Have you been thinking about becoming a parent? Where do you begin? Let the experts answer your questions at our two-day workshop.
OPALGA is pleased to offer our third annual 1-1/2 day workshop on “Contemplating Parenthood in the Gay & Lesbian Community.” Come and join us on Saturday, June 9th from 10:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. to hear some professional perspectives and on Sunday, June 10th from 1:00 to 4:00 p.m. to participate in panel and small group discussions and activities with gay and lesbian parents and their children. This workshop will be held in Oak Park at the Hephzibah Children’s Association – Family Based Services Foster Care & Adoption office.
Saturday is all about the experts. Local Attorney, Rosemary Mulryan, is our opening guest speaker on Saturday. Her presentation offers great insight into the legal issues facing gay and lesbian families, including co-parent adoption in the state of Illinois. Other professional speakers will address artificial insemination, sperm and egg donation, surrogacy, foster care & adoption. You will have the opportunity to ask specific questions and participate in an enlightening discussion.
Sunday is all about the kids. You will have the opportunity to speak to parents and their kids about their journey. From what do the kids call you, to how do you handle school and play dates. Our families will share with you and answer your questions.
The fee for the workshop is $75.00 for an individual and $130.00 for a couple. All workshop organizers and presenters volunteer their services. Your workshop fee helps to fund OPALGA youth programming.
If you are interested in attending the workshop call The OPALGA Center at (708) 848-0273 or send an e-mail to info@opalga.org.
March Message from the Co-Chairs
The OPALGA Board of Directors met on a cold Sunday in early February and assessed our work over the last year. There were a couple tasks with which we did not get as far as we would have liked, but there were many more accomplishments that we were pleased to have tackled and finished. We reviewed plans on membership development, membership outreach, programming expansion, community involvement, volunteer recruitment, and budgeting for an executive director for our organization.
At our retreat, we also continued working on a policies and procedures manual for OPALGA that is projected to be completed early this year. We believe that it is time to pass along the successful strategies and plans created by the toil of current dedicated people and by those who have gone before us. No longer should we reinvent the wheel with every change of leadership. We must develop a reproducible, communicable process that is followed for every important aspect of the operating procedures of the organization.
It is a daunting task. There is minutia in abundance. Many hands will lighten the work.
The prospect of completion is both necessary and exciting. Creating a policies and procedures manual prepares us for the next step in developing a not-for-profit organization— the external audit. Our financial security depends on our ability to show protocols for the organization’s activities—both day-to-day and special events. By recording our policies and procedures, the safeguards and our efforts to protect the organization will be visible for anyone to see.
Something Old…Something New for GALA 2007!
We have some surprises in store for you with this year’s OPAL GALA! First of all, a GALA first...we are moving out of June and stretching our pride into July! Friday, July 13, to be exact, so save the date and tell your friends and guests. Not only that but we are heading back to the Elmcrest Banquets by Biancalana in nearby Elmwood Park! And last but not least, we are welcoming back the popular comedienne Georgia Ragsdale to emcee this year’s event! Georgia was a big hit in 2003, and we are thrilled to have her back.
Our small but energetic committee, led by my co-chair Dan Salotti and myself, is hard at work planning this year’s GALA. As you can see, we are well on our way, but we need your time and talent to help make this the best party of the year. It’s never too late to volunteer to be a part of this sensational event. Volunteers should call The OPALGA Center at 708-848-0273 or Donna at 708-227-8799. Thanks!
Coffeehouse to Feature Emily White and Brianna Lane
On Friday, March 16, OPALGA will welcome Emily White and Brianna Lane to our monthly Buzz Café Coffeehouse.
Emily White learned the appeal of acoustic music early. Growing up studying the singer-songwriters and blues musicians playing in the parks on Beale Street in Memphis, Emily learned the intimacy and personal connection between artist and listener that acoustic music can create. Immersing herself in learning jazz and folk classics, Emily also began writing original songs. It was at this time that she got her first taste of live performance, honing her skills by playing guitar at jazz brunches throughout Memphis.
“With an innocent, emotionally present voice, Emily delivers punch after punch of raw truth, ensconced with beautiful melody and competent musicians to sweeten the dark mix of pain and shame that come with being human,” said Cheryl Kain of http://www.EdgeBoston.com about “Every Pulse,” Emily’s debut recording. Since its release, “Every Pulse” has been gaining media attention, and Emily has been playing shows throughout the country supporting the CD, both with and without the bass and drum trio with whom she recorded the CD.
It has been said of Brianna Lane that “This chick puts the word ‘singer’ in singer-songwriter.” Brianna is a sweet-voiced alterna-folkie who grew up in Minnesota. You can blame her sweetness on her roots, but this girl has been on the road non-stop for three years, and you can hear her experiences in every note she sings. Brianna has a voice and a presence beyond her years. She strums an acoustic guitar with the same power with which she sings. Brianna is currently touring the nation in support of her newest release, “Radiator.”
Brianna is an up-and-coming artist with sweetly smoky vocals and crisp guitar work. With strong rhythm and the occasional alternative tuning, Brianna has a separate, distinct style that guarantees her a place on the southeast folk circuit. To keep up with her growing reputation, Brianna has been slowly expanding her performance radius over the past six years.
Don’t miss the opportunity to hear these two artists perform as a remarkable duo on March 16. The performance begins at 7:00 p.m. at The Buzz Café, 905 S. Lombard, Oak Park.
Farewell, Nutbush!!
It is truly the end of an era. Nutbush City Limits is closing. Some of us remember it as Adron’s, and most of us have one story or another to tell.
So, join OPALGA for a going-away party at the Nutbush on Sunday, February 25, at 4:00 p.m. Grab some friends, and let’s reminisce over the discounted cocktails.
Maybe the Nutbush was the first gay bar you ever went to, or maybe it was your regular hangout, but I’m sure that we all have some memories to share—"Lock In” on New Year’s Eve, OPALGA’s first Drag Show, or your first crush, trick, or breakup. My first memory comes from my childhood, when my father used to tell us about “that faggot bar over on Harlem.” I found out later (once I came out) that he and his friend actually used to hang out there because they knew how to work an angle, flirt, and get free drinks. Like my father, I’ve always had a good time at the Nutbush, whether it be a Sunday afternoon martini party or dancing late into the night after a drag show. It truly is the end of an era. So, bring your tears, laughter, and memories, and help us say goodbye to an old friend.
Nutbush City Limits
7201 Franklin St., Forest Park
Sunday, February 25, 4:00 p.m.
Mike, Brian, and staff will be hosting.
OPAL Gala Planning Meeting—Tuesday, February 6
The 2007 Gala is just around the corner, and we encourage you to get involved. The first meeting of the Gala Host Committee is scheduled for Tuesday, February 6, at 7:00 p.m. at The OPALGA Center, 947 Garfield, Oak Park.
We are proud to announce that this year’s Gala co-chairs are Donna Karpavicius and Dan Salotti. Donna has been a gala volunteer in a variety of capacities for a number of years, and Dan recently co-chaired the very successful OPALGA jazz brunch. Both Donna and Dan are looking forward to another successful Gala.
Volunteers are needed in the following areas:
• Banquet and Dinner Program
• Entertainment
• Pre-Event
• Auctions and Raffle
• Table Captain Recruitment
• Sponsorships and Program Book Advertising
• Publicity and Marketing
If you are interested in volunteering and cannot attend the kick-off meeting, please call The OPALGA Center at (708) 848-0273 or send an e-mail to .
Come on, all you talented and energetic OPALGA folk. We know you are out there, and we really need your help in making this year’s Gala our most smashing event ever! We look forward to seeing many new faces at our initial planning meeting!
Message from the Co-Chairs
The Privilege of Participation
Frank Thomas, an African-American pastor known for his compelling preaching and his courageous leadership, wrote a book in which he talks about the “privilege to participate.” He refers to those who participate as members of a church community, but his theories can apply to any collection of people who voluntarily gather together for a common purpose as we do in OPALGA.
The title of the book is Spiritual Maturity, but it could easily have been entitled Ethical Organizational Growth or Value-Based Leadership. He talks candidly about leadership roles; communication; organizational process; and the clarity, decisiveness, and courage it takes to lead. He speaks equally to the vices that often permeate organizations, such as scapegoating and secrets.
OPALGA is experiencing one of its strongest periods of growth since its inception. Our programs are strong, and our membership continues to increase steadily. Our budget for 2007 exceeds $150,000, which is a benchmark for increased accountability as a non–profit organization. We have the good fortune to welcome talented, energetic people to our ranks. Still, as a volunteer-based organization, our greatest assets are the relationships that we have with one another and our shared commitment to the OPALGA mission.
Organizational development usually starts with a small number of people who drive the accomplishments of the association. An organization will not grow, and regrettably may not survive, if process and fact do not become the driving force of continued organizational growth. The ultimate value of leaders in an organization is not judged by their activism or by the length of their service but by how well they uphold the principle of privileged participation by putting into action what they perceive is best for the greater good of the organization, based on the facts before them.
At this juncture, it is the Board’s task to adhere sinew and muscle to the backbone of the bylaws and to pave the way for participation to be clear and efficient. The Board must continue to define, in unambiguous detail, positions, procedures, and organizational policies in an effort to demonstrate transparency and accountability.
This effort is not reserved solely for the Board. The membership has a responsibility to the organization, as well. Members accomplish this by conveying their insights about the direction of the organization and the needs of its membership. Members also assist the leadership in routing out the policies or procedures that are counterproductive to the organization’s growth and that detract from the higher purpose and ultimate success of the organization.
As the leaders of the Board of Directors, we encourage the membership to get involved if you haven’t already done so. We encourage you to attend and observe our monthly Board meetings, which are open to all members, or to participate as members in our various committee meetings. After all, as we have said above, as a volunteer-based organization, our greatest assets are the relationships that we have with one another and our shared commitment to the OPALGA mission.
OPALGA Jazz Brunch a Huge Success
More than 75 people attended the OPALGA jazz brunch at Cucina Paradiso, 814 North Blvd., Oak Park, on Sunday, January 21. Ticket sales exceeded expectations, said brunch co-chairs Marian Houston and Dan Salotti. Working closely with the Programming Committee, the OPALGA Board, and the restaurant, the co-chairs came up with a fabulous event, according to everyone this reporter spoke with.
The menu featured a delicious array of fresh fruit, pastries, egg casseroles, French toast, sandwiches, and remarkable desserts. Soft jazz music provided the perfect background for lively conversation. Much laughter was heard throughout the restaurant as old and new OPALGA members mingled. As guests arrived, they were given a small gift to take home. “It seems that you thought of every detail,” one attendee told the co-chairs.
Raffle prizes included a gift certificate to James Anthony Salon and Day Spa, dinner for two at Cucina Paradiso, art lessons from Dawn Ferencak, and several others. Laura Drumm, chair of the Programming Committee, announced upcoming events and led a toast prior to beginning the raffle drawing.
“One of the most enjoyable things about planning this event was the opportunity to work with Marian,” Salotti said. Houston said she enjoyed working with Salotti as well. “We are just glad to see everyone enjoying themselves and having a good time,” Houston and Salotti agreed.
OPALGA would like to thank the brunch co-chairs and the entire Programming Committee, as well as all of the attendees, for their enthusiasm and for their participation in this wonderful event.
“Ease on Down the Road” to “The Wiz”
Lions and tigers and bears, oh my! The Programming Committee invites you to join OPALGA friends for a venture into the city to catch a production of “The Wiz” presented by the White Horse Theater Company. The performance will take place on Saturday, March 10, at 7:00 p.m. at the Theatre Building Chicago, 1225 W. Belmont Ave., Chicago.
“The Wiz,” winner of seven Tony awards, is based on The Wonderful Wizard of Oz by L. Frank Baum, with book by William F. Brown and music and lyrics by Charlie Smalls.
Tickets are $15 and the theater offers valet parking and a full bar for your convenience and enjoyment. So, whether you are a friend of Dorothy’s or just can’t miss a good musical, grab your partner, family, and friends and “ease on down the road” for a night out. The number of tickets is limited, so call The OPALGA Center (708-848-0273) to purchase your tickets today. Cash, checks, and credit cards are accepted.
Keep your eyes open for another theater outing in May. Details will be announced soon.
